
So I Healed… and now I can’t stand anyone!?
- unapologeticallyba1
- Jun 12
- 1 min read
No one warned me about this part of healing ❤️🩹
Like yes, shoutout to me for surviving heartbreak. I cried, I journaled, I blocked, I glowed up. Growth? Had it. Closure? Found it. Peace? Secured.
But now I’m here… and I can’t stand anybody.
Not in a bitter way — just in a don’t-talk-to-me-unless-you’re-sent-by-God-and-emotionally-mature kind of way.
Like suddenly, everything feels off.
I don’t be liking anybody. Really. I don’t have the energy to fake interest or small talk.
I’ve gotten so good at protecting my peace that entertaining someone feels like a risk I’m not ready to take.
But here’s the thing: I don’t want to be single forever.
So now I’m sitting in this strange middle ground — not bitter, but not easily moved.
Not broken, but still guarded.
Not closed off, but definitely not wide open.
And I know I’m not the only one feeling this weird, stuck-in-between limbo.
Healing made me wiser, but it also made me more selective — with my time, energy, and heart.
And that’s okay.
But it can feel lonely sometimes.
To anyone else sitting in this in-between space, just know:
You’re not broken. You’re just protecting what you rebuilt.
And when something real comes along — something worth that softness again — you’ll know.
Until then, keep honoring the love you give yourself unapologetically.
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