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So I Healed… and now I can’t stand anyone!?

No one warned me about this part of healing ❤️‍🩹


Like yes, shoutout to me for surviving heartbreak. I cried, I journaled, I blocked, I glowed up. Growth? Had it. Closure? Found it. Peace? Secured.


But now I’m here… and I can’t stand anybody.

Not in a bitter way — just in a don’t-talk-to-me-unless-you’re-sent-by-God-and-emotionally-mature kind of way.


Like suddenly, everything feels off.

I don’t be liking anybody. Really. I don’t have the energy to fake interest or small talk.

I’ve gotten so good at protecting my peace that entertaining someone feels like a risk I’m not ready to take.


But here’s the thing: I don’t want to be single forever.

So now I’m sitting in this strange middle ground — not bitter, but not easily moved.

Not broken, but still guarded.

Not closed off, but definitely not wide open.


And I know I’m not the only one feeling this weird, stuck-in-between limbo.


Healing made me wiser, but it also made me more selective — with my time, energy, and heart.

And that’s okay.

But it can feel lonely sometimes.


To anyone else sitting in this in-between space, just know:

You’re not broken. You’re just protecting what you rebuilt.

And when something real comes along — something worth that softness again — you’ll know.


Until then, keep honoring the love you give yourself unapologetically.





 
 
 

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